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Unleash Their Inner Fun: Top Toys Older Kids Will Love
Toys for 7 Year Olds Is it just us or does buying toys for older kids seem way harder than shopping for toddler and preschoolers? They still love pretending, playing outside, and other “kid” things…but also want to be seen as older and more mature. But don’t resort to screen-based gifts just yet! Kids in this range still benefit from toys that promote pretend play, creativity, and physical activity. These are a few of our fav toys for older kids thanks to their perfect blend of little-kid-fun and big-kid-cool. Best Toys for 7 + Year Olds Best Outdoor Toy: Cozy Escape Playhouse Older kids still love having their own “secret” hideaways, but they may be getting a little too tall for smaller playhouses. The Cozy Escape Playhouse is the perfect solution. It’s big enough for a seven year old plus a few friends with room to grow for the next couple of years. The modern design gives it a cool vibe that’s perfect if your child feels a little too old for a cutesy, “kiddish” theme. Best Arts & Crafts Toy: Art Table with Drying Rack & Storage Older kids tend to be more focused and ambitious with their art projects, so they’ll appreciate a dedicated space that lets them create and feel like a real artist. This Kids Art Table with Drying Rack & Storage gives them room to get creative with more advanced (i.e. messy!) materials…without getting that mess all over your kitchen table. They’ll have room to store paint and other art supplies, a roll of paper to create masterpiece after masterpiece, and a built-in drying rack. It’s also a great place to tackle tricky homework problems! Best Building Toy: Clever Creator Activity Table Older kids love challenging Lego sets, and the Clever Creator Activity Table gives them the perfect place to build, protect, display, and store their creations. They can stand the table up to work sitting or kneeling or collapse the legs to work laying on their stomachs. Either way, their creations will be sturdy and secure on the building surface. And if they want a change of scenery, they can easily transport it from room to room. Best Backyard Toy for Older Kids: All-in-One Sports Adventure Want to turn your backyard into an all-out sports arena? Well, maybe it’s not high on your list of to-dos, but we bet your older kid would be all for it! Fortunately, you don’t have to take up a ton of space to help your child play and practice multiple sports from their own backyard. The All-in-One Sports Adventure set combines the kid-favorite features of a traditional playset (like slides, climbing ladders, and play decks) with exciting ways to practice skills for soccer, basketball, football, golf, and baseball. It includes all the balls, nets, goals, bats, and clubs you’ll need plus a basket for storage. Set it up, and it’s official – your backyard is the “cool backyard” to all your kids’ playdate pals. Best Toy for 7+ Year Old Girls: Ultimate Slumber Party Mansion Dollhouse Older girls still love dollhouses, but they often want something a little less bright-and-sparkly and a little more “grown-up”. The Ultimate Slumber Party Mansion Dollhouse fits the bill with its trendy, chic style, and at just over 5 feet tall, it’s the perfect big dollhouse for big kids! For another style, try the So Stylish Mansion Dollhouse in Boho Naturals. The natural wood and open-frame design make it another great choice for older girls who want a dollhouse that looks modern and cool. Best Toys for 7 Year Old Boys: Nerf Scout Defense Post Your son can take his Nerf battles to the next level with the Nerf Scout Defense Post. Hiding places, practice targets, defense shields, climbing features, and built-in blaster and dart storage make it the ideal toy for boys who love to get active and competitive. The Nerf Geostrike Headquarters and Nerf Command Base Battle Fort are great options too!Still shopping around? Use our Shop by Age page for a curated selection of toys your “bid kids” will love! Need something for younger sibling too? You can check out all of our favorites for kids 3-6 years old below!Best Toys for Six Year OldsBest Toys for Five Year OldsBest Toys for Four Year OldsBest Toys for Three Year Olds
Creative Art Activities for Preschoolers
Preschoolers are natural artists — give them a blank page and some crayons, and they’ll be occupied for quite some time (even if they’re just enthusiastically scribbling!). Beyond being fun, creative play for preschool-aged kids is a crucial part of early childhood development. Through art, little ones explore their imagination, build fine motor skills, and learn to express themselves in ways words can’t always capture. Plus, there’s something magical about watching a child light up as they mix colors or create art with objects from around the house! What Should a Preschooler Be Able to Do? At the preschool stage, kids are developing important fine motor skills, hand-eye coordination, and creative thinking, so their arts and crafts abilities are all about exploration rather than perfection. Most preschoolers can hold and use crayons, markers, and paintbrushes with increasing control, though their grip may still be a bit unrefined. They can tear, glue, and manipulate paper, experiment with scissors (with supervision), and enjoy hands-on sensory activities like finger painting or modeling with playdough. Keep in mind that, at this age, the focus isn’t on creating picture-perfect artwork but rather on engaging their imagination, practicing problem-solving, and having fun with different textures, colors, and materials. 12 Creative Activities for Preschoolers Stuck in an arts and crafts rut with your preschooler? Add a little excitement back to craft time with these creative art ideas for preschoolers! 1. Make Your Own Paint Making your own paint is surprisingly easy and just might be the fun your preschooler needs to get interested in their art table again! We like this simple recipe for homemade paint with flour. 2. DIY Puzzles Once your preschooler has finished a drawing or painting, extend the fun by asking them if they want to turn it into a puzzle! Let them draw lines throughout the picture and then use safety scissors to cut it into pieces. Then, they can mix it up and work on solving their brand new puzzle! 3. Rain Splatter Painting This creative painting idea doubles as a way to make the most of rainy days! Let your child drop food coloring onto a large piece of thick paper placed on a baking sheet. Take it outside when it’s raining ( a light drizzle or sprinkle works best) and let the rain mix the colors together! The result will always be unique. 4. Art with Natural Materials Your backyard just might have plenty of creative art opportunities! Let your child use garden tools and stones to make their very own “zen garden” in the sandbox. Gather flowers (and yes, weeds count!) to glue to a drawing. Find and paint pinecones. Or if you’re up for a little mess, let your child create a muddy mixture to “paint” with (outside of course!) 5. Kids Camera Let your kids explore a whole new artistic medium: photography! There are plenty of affordable cameras created just for kids (or you can let them use your phone if you’re brave). If they need some inspiration, provide a scavenger-hunt-style list of objects to photograph. 6. Copy a Famous Painting Whether it’s something as classic as Starry Night, or as funky as Andy Warhol’s Soup Cans, most kids will love the chance to recreate something from a “real” artist. Show them a few pieces, let them choose, and provide the colors and materials they’ll need to give it their best shot! (If you have a little perfectionist, remind them that it’s just for fun, and it does NOT need to look exactly like the original to be a success!) 7. Respond to a Piece of Art Instead of copying a piece of art, your child can create something in response to a book, song, or piece of visual art. Maybe they imagine the homes of their favorite characters in a book or make a painting that reminds them of a song. There are no rules! 8. Create a Mosaic You can use anything from pieces of construction paper to extra buttons and coins, to large sequins, Just hand your preschooler a glue stick (or help them with a hot glue gun if needed) and let them get to work! 9. Use Found Items If your preschooler always seems to find random objects on the ground, this project gives them an excuse to collect their little treasures! Let your kids start a “found items” box, and when they have enough, they can use the pieces to create a sculpture or glue onto a picture. For example, they can glue on buttons to create a bunch of balloons, decorate a bird sculpture with real feathers they’ve found, or just combine their pieces into fun, abstract art. 10. Sculpt with Modeling Clay If your child loved (or still loves!) play dough as a toddler, they’re sure to love the slightly more “big kid” challenge of making modeling clay sculptures. If they need some inspiration, we love these original modeling clay ideas. 11. Faux Stain Glass For this project, you’ll need a solution of dish soap, paintbrushes, and different colored cellophane. You or your child can cut the cellophane into any shapes you want to create your stained glass art. You can go for a random mosaic of shapes, or something more intricate. Then, let them paint the dish solution on the window and stick the cellophane to it. It should stick well but come peel right off when you’re ready to clean up! 12. Color Mixing Bottles Fill some used plastic water bottles with water and food coloring in the primary colors (red, yellow, blue). Then, use a funnel to let them combine colors into other empty water bottles, replace the cap, and shake them up. It’s a great way to teach them about color mixing, and they’ll love learning the different combinations they can use to create their favorite colors! FAQ What are some easy preschool crafts for make-believe play? DIY paper crowns are perfect for royal pretend play, cardboard box cars or rocket ships make for exciting adventures, and paper plate animal masks are sure to lead to storytelling fun. What are some May art activities for preschoolers? May is the perfect time for spring-inspired art activities! Preschoolers can create handprint flower bouquets for Mother’s Day, make butterfly collages with tissue paper, or paint bright suns and rainbows to celebrate the season. What are some crafts about friendship for preschoolers? Making friendship bracelets is a classic friendship-themed craft that never gets old! Try making friendship bracelets with beads or pasta. Another idea is crafting "helping hands" by tracing their handprints and then writing or drawing ways they can be a good friend.
Sharing Activities for Toddlers
7 Sharing Activities for Toddlers Teaching your toddler to share doesn’t have to be painful… no, really! These sharing activities for toddlers can help you sneak in some sharing lessons and let your toddler have fun in the process! Pass the Ball It doesn’t get any simpler than this. A classic game of rolling or tossing a ball can help your toddler )learn to willingly give away an object and )see that playing with someone can be a lot more fun than playing alone… even if it means temporarily giving up the toy. Feed the Monster For this activity, you’ll craft a hungry monster (or whatever animal you like) from an old cereal box. Cut out a large hole for the mouth and use paint or construction paper to make a face. Then, it’s time to feed the monster! Fill a bowl with craft pom-poms or dried pasta for the food. Tell your toddler the monster is hungry, and give them a spoon to scoop and “share” with the monster. Sure, it’s not the same as actually sharing with a sibling or friend, but it does let them practice giving something to “someone” else. Choose What to Share This one isn’t a game so much as a pre-playdate activity. If your toddler struggles when they have to share their toys, give them some control and let them choose what to share ahead of time. Let them pick a few “safe” items they don’t have to share, and then put these items away for the playdate. Knowing that they won’t be forced to share their favorite things can help reduce any anxiety and reluctance they feel about sharing.Then, have them pick a few toys they’d like to share. If all goes well, after the playdate you can point out how happy they made their friend because they chose to share. Play Santa Ever notice how much toddlers love being to one to pass out the presents on Christmas day? Keep that sharing attitude alive all year by letting them gather pretend gifts and hand them out to family members or their toy “friends.” Maybe Teddy Bear would like to wear your child’s favorite pair of shoes, and Daddy would love to get a toy truck. Of course, your child won’t actually be giving away their possessions, but even pretending helps them see that sharing can feel great! Add a Santa hat to get them in the spirit, or make it less seasonal and pretend that they’re giving out “thank you” gifts. Crafts (with limited materials) Sharing craft supplies is pretty much an everyday occurrence in preschool, so start getting your little one prepared by sharing craft materials at home. You can work on your own craft or picture as they do and occasionally ask for a crayon, glue stick, etc. Add in a few extra fun items like little gemstones or puffy stickers to let your kiddo get used to leaving enough of the “cool stuff” for everyone. Cook Together Cooking with your child naturally involves a lot of turn-taking and sharing various utensils and ingredients. They’ll love feeling like they’ve contributed to the meal, and they’ll gradually get used to giving up the stirring spoon or taking turns with the rolling pin. You can also practice these skills as you pretend in their play kitchen together – with a lot less mess! Pretend Sharing If your kiddo isn’t buying the whole “Sharing is Caring” thing from you, maybe the message will sink in through a few pretend scenarios. When you’re playing together with their dolls or stuffies, makeup scenarios where the toys have to share an item or take turns doing an activity. The toys’ willingness to share with each other can help demonstrate that sharing can be easy and fun!For more sharing activities and other tips to help your toddler learn to share, see our guide to Teaching Sharing through Play!
Tips for Choosing Quality Toys: Why Investing in Toys That Last Matters
As a parent, you want toys that spark joy, fuel imagination, and actually last. But in today’s toy market, flashy packaging and short-lived trends often win out over quality and longevity. So how do you tell the difference between a toy that’s worth every penny and one that’ll end up forgotten at the bottom of the toy bin? It starts with knowing what to look for. Follow these smart, simple tips for choosing quality children’s toys that stand the test of time. Why Is Choosing Quality Children’s Toys So Important? High-quality toys do more than entertain. They encourage skill-building, imaginative thinking, and creative exploration day after day and year after year. Better-built toys can grow with your child, support multiple stages of development, and even become treasured hand-me-downs. And when you choose quality, you're often choosing sustainability, too. Fewer broken pieces and discarded toys mean less waste for your wallet and the planet. What Makes a Toy High-Quality? Quality toys are built to endure everyday play while remaining safe, engaging, and developmentally appropriate. Great toys tend to share a few key characteristics: Materials That Stand Up to Daily Play The old saying “They just don’t make them like they used to” rings especially true when it comes to modern toys. While important changes like safer manufacturing standards and non-toxic finishes have improved overall toy safety, many mass-produced toys are made with flimsy plastics that don’t hold up to enthusiastic play. That’s why we’re big believers in the lasting value of wooden toys. Especially for larger pieces like dollhouses, kitchen sets, and outdoor playsets, wood offers a more durable, eco-conscious option. Quality wooden toys often feature non-toxic paints and finishes, giving you peace of mind while your child plays. They’re also designed with sturdier construction that’s ready for years of fun. Timeless Design and Lasting Appeal Some toys are designed to shine for a short season. Others are built to stay relevant for years. Look for toys with open-ended play potential, such as pretend kitchens, dollhouses, train sets, and building blocks. These toys spark creativity, grow with your child, and can be used in multiple ways. The more ways your child can use a toy—whether independently or with friends—the more likely it is to stay in rotation (and out of the donation pile). Thoughtful design matters just as much as materials. Look for toys with sturdy hardware, smooth edges, and construction built to withstand years of rough-and-tumble fun. These little design details may not be flashy, but they make a big difference when it comes to longevity, safety, and everyday enjoyment. Are Toys a Good Investment for Families? Yes! When you choose well-made toys by KidKraft, the best kids' brand for quality materials, you're investing in something that can be enjoyed for years, passed down between siblings, or even saved for future generations. Durable toys for kids reduce the need for frequent replacements, making them a smarter long-term choice for families who value quality over quantity. Tips for Choosing Quality Toys by Age or Stage Here are a few age-specific ideas to help you choose toys that match your child’s current age and developmental stage: Babies (0–12 months): Look for safe, sensory-rich toys made of non-toxic materials, like textured rattles or soft activity mats. Toddlers (1–3 years): Choose toys that encourage fine motor skills and discovery, like shape sorters, stacking toys, or push-and-pull toys. Preschoolers (3–5 years): Opt for skill-building toys that foster early learning and imagination, such as play kitchens, puzzles, activity tables, and pretend play sets. Ages 6+: Encourage imaginative play and independence with building sets, role-play kits, and craft stations that allow for self-directed exploration. Choose Toys That Build Skills and Last Generations By investing in well-made, thoughtfully designed toys, you’re setting the stage for meaningful, long-lasting play. Shop KidKraft and choose toys that grow with your child—and last for years!
Forming Your Toddler's Emotional Intelligence
When we hear “intelligence”, we tend to think test scores. But emotional intelligence is just as important as academic intelligence. Emotional intelligence refers to someone’s ability to understand and manage their own emotions and empathize with those around them. Even though toddlers aren’t exactly known for their emotional control, building emotional intelligence in kids and toddlers is not only possible – it’s absolutely essential for their wellbeing. Here are some day-to-day techniques parents can use to help their toddlers grow up to be emotionally intelligent, empathetic adults. Name Emotions There’s no doubt that little toddlers feel BIG feelings – and those feelings can be even tougher to handle when they don’t have language to express them. You can help your child learn how to identify and verbally express emotions by naming them and empathizing with them. Next time big feelings bubble up, try something like this: “You seem really frustrated that you can’t get your gloves on by yourself. That would frustrate me too.” “You’re feeling angry that you can’t have another cookie right now. I know it’s tough to have to wait.” “You’re disappointed that it’s raining and we can’t go to the park. I understand, and I’m disappointed too!” “It seems like you’re nervous about sleeping at Grandma’s tonight. New things can feel scary sometimes, but…” Dr. Daniel Siegel, the author of the bestselling Whole Brain Child, calls this technique “Name It to Tame It.” The idea is that the more kids know how to talk about their feelings, the better they’ll be able to control them. Oh, and don’t forget to name the positive emotions too – you’ll love hearing your child talk about times they feel excited, fascinated, and happy, thankful, etc. Show & Encourage Empathy We already mentioned empathy in the tip above, but it’s worth repeating because it’s that important. It can be all too easy to dismiss toddlers’ emotions, but even though they may not always be logical, they are real – especially to your toddler. So, the next time your three-year-old cries because you peeled her banana wrong, instead of saying, “It’s not that big of a deal!” or “Stop crying!”, try something like “You’re really upset that you didn’t get to peel the banana the way you wanted. I’m sorry you’re disappointed. Maybe we can peel it that way next time!” Silly as it seems, this approach teaches toddlers they are safe to feel big feelings and express them to you. This doesn’t mean you indulge inappropriate behavior or cave to tantrums. It simply means you acknowledge what they’re feeling as you try to find a solution to the problem. You can also help your toddler practice empathy by helping them notice and think about the feelings of others. For example, if a character is crying in a book, you can point out that they’re sad, ask your toddler if they know why they feel that way or what might make them feel better. Discuss Behavior After the Storm Has Passed As we mentioned, showing empathy doesn’t mean that inappropriate behavior goes unaddressed. Kids still need boundaries and need to know that some ways of expressing feelings are not okay. When your toddler bites you in the middle of a big tantrum, that obviously needs to be addressed… just don’t count on anything sinking in during the tantrum. After the tantrum has passed and your child is calm, they’ll be far more likely to actually listen. You can help them process through why they acted the way they did, why it wasn’t okay, and what they should do differently next time. Of course, sometimes correction just can’t wait. When behavior needs to be stopped immediately (like hitting a sibling or trying to run away with the dishwasher pods), remove your child from the situation and follow up with discussion once they’ve calmed down. Be the Example One of the best things we can do to help our toddlers’ emotional development is to be good examples of emotional intelligence ourselves. When our kids see us yelling during arguments, slamming doors, or constantly disregarding others’ feelings, they’ll likely do the same as they grow up. No parent is perfect, but reflecting on your own emotional intelligence can help you recognize some unhealthy patterns in your own life. Emotional intelligence is a lifelong journey, and we all have areas where we could improve. Striving to do so will help our kids and better our own lives and relationships as well. Model Apologizing & Owning Mistakes As much as you try to model healthy emotional behavior, we’re all bound to make mistakes. When you lose your cool in front of your child or at your child, don’t beat yourself up. Use the moment to explain why your response was wrong and show them how to apologize and own mistakes. Your humility will help them feel more comfortable apologizing and owning mistakes as they get older too. Handling our emotions well and empathizing with others is a journey for all of us – especially for easily-overwhelmed toddlers. Even as you implement the techniques above, know that it will take plenty of time for your toddler to become naturally empathetic and self-controlled. But keep at it. Helping your child develop their emotional intelligence will improve their future and let you share an even deeper, sweeter relationship as they grow!
Problem Solving Activities for Toddlers
7 Problem Solving Activities for Toddlers If you have a toddler, challenges like tough homework problems or social dilemmas are still a long way off. But their brains are already working to build the cognitive skills they’ll need to solve life’s “big” problems later on. For now, problem-solving activities – even ones that seem simple to us – can help them boost their cognition, resilience, and creativity. Best of all? These “problems” are actually fun! Here are seven simple problem-solving activities for toddlers and preschoolers you can start trying right away! Memory Games Those little memory card games with matching pictures are great for building concentration, memory, and problem-solving skills in your toddler! Many sets might come with a few too many pairs for a toddler to handle without help, so start with just three to four pairs and see if they can match them up! As they begin to master that, you can add in more and more pairs until they’re working with the entire deck. If you don’t have a deck, you can easily DIY your own with online printables or your own drawings. Shape Sorters Shape sorters are a classic problem-solving toy for young toddlers. In addition to matching the shapes to the correct holes, they’ll also need to figure out why the shapes don’t always fit into the hole, requiring them to rotate the shape or make subtle adjustments to their grip. Sorting/ Grouping by Category Sorting activities are excellent for toddlers’ problem solving and cognitive development, so there’s no need to stop with shape sorters! Set up simple activities that allow them to sort by a variety of categories. This can be as simple as letting them unload the dishwasher silverware tray into the silverware organizer. Or ask them to gather up all the yellow items they see in a room. Puzzles Rotating puzzles is a great way to keep the problem-solving challenge fresh for your toddler. Even a familiar puzzle can present a fun, “new” challenge for your toddler if they haven’t seen it in weeks. Hide the Teddy Bear One cognitive milestone for two-year-olds is the ability to find an object that’s been hidden under two or more layers. Once they’ve mastered that, they’ll be ready for more advanced hiding games. Try hiding a teddy bear or other toy when they aren’t looking and then give them clues to find it. You can start off with basic directions and then progress to tougher clues or games of warmer/ colder. Help Mommy/ Daddy Toddlers love to help, and helping Mommy or Daddy with a problem can be a lot less frustrating than solving their own. For example, if your little one has been determined to put on their own socks lately but always ends up super frustrated, try mimicking the same problem yourself and asking for their help. You can coach them through the process (“Now we need to stretch out the opening of the sock!”), and because their emotions aren’t already running high, they’ll be more likely to actually absorb your tips. You can model how to stay calm through frustrating situations and help them build confidence in their ability to tackle the same problem later. Constructive Play Toys The ability to build a block tower of four or more blocks is actually considered a cognitive milestone for two-year-olds. For three-year-olds, a tower of six or more blocks is the expected milestone. That’s because building anything, even a simple block tower, is a true problem-solving challenge for toddlers. Blocks, train sets, and other building toys let your child work out how to balance, fit pieces together, and deal with frustration as they learn to master the challenge.
How to Teach Sharing through Play
Activities That Promote Sharing Sharing doesn’t come naturally for toddlers. Putting aside their own desires and prioritizing someone else’s requires a level of cognitive development that most kids won’t fully reach until age 3.5 to 4. But that doesn’t mean we can’t help our kids progress toward sharing and taking turns before that. The sooner we start setting expectations, encouraging sharing, and helping them process big emotions when they don’t want to share, the more likely they’ll be able to share easily and happily as they get older. Here are a few tips adults can use to help toddlers and preschoolers share with their siblings and peers – plus a few activities that make sharing fun for even the most close-fisted kiddos. Think “Long Turns” instead of “Share Right Away” Your three-year-old picks up a toy, and your eighteen-month-old immediately toddles over to grab it. Your three-year-old shrieks, the baby cries, and you remind the older child to share with their sibling. Sound familiar? While this approach to sharing may seem easy to us, for younger kids, it feels unfair and even baffling. And when you really think about it, even you wouldn’t take kindly to someone wanting an item you’d just begun to use. In these cases, it’s best to let the first child who had the toy play with it until they’re finished. Once they’ve left the toy behind, the other child can take their own long turn – no snatching allowed from either kid.This approach to sharing is more in line with toddler and preschooler’s cognitive development. “I can’t snatch something someone else has” is much easier to comprehend than “I must give up the thing I have because someone else wants it.” Help Kids Wait Their Turn Of course, this approach is tough for the child who has to wait their turn. You can help by acknowledging and validating their feelings (i.e. “It’s okay to be upset. Waiting is hard.) and helping them find other ways to play as they wait. Sometimes a little distraction is key to preventing a meltdown. Praise Spontaneous Sharing and Point Out the Positive Consequences Okay, so we get that the “turn-taking” scenario isn’t *exactly* sharing. So when kids do share all on their own, make sure you encourage the behavior with praise (just don’t overdo it) and point out how happy they’ve made their sibling or friend. Doing so will help your child want to share more as they get older. Sharing becomes something they can be proud of and feel good about instead of something adults force them to do. Fun Activities that Promote Sharing To make sharing even more attractive, try out games and activities that make sharing fun! Basketball, Soccer and Other Team Sports The toddler version that is! All the technical rules are too much for toddlers to understand, but working towards a common goal of passing the ball to each other and getting in the hoop or goal? That they can handle. The more they toss or kick the ball to their peers, the more you cheer! Hot Potato/Pass the Ball Hot potato is all about not keeping the ball, so it’s great for kids who struggle to give up objects to their friends. If your little ones are too young to understand hot potato, try a simple game of rolling and passing the ball back and forth. Make passes quick and silly to make it seem more fun! Pretend Sharing Even if your kid doesn’t love to share, they’re probably totally fine with their dolls, stuffed animals, and other toys sharing with each other. As you play pretend with your child, you can make up scenarios where both dolls want a turn in the elevator dollhouse or both trains want to go through the tunnel. You can act out the situation together… and of course, you’ll make sure the toys showcase sharing as fun and easy! Role Play Sharing Similarly, your child might be more willing to share if they’re pretending to be a character rather than themselves. For example, they can be the head chef in their play kitchen who needs to share the tools and food with you, their assistant. Learning to share will take plenty of time and patience from both your child and you! We hope these tips and activities can make that process a little less tear-filled and a lot more fun!
Key Childhood Development Milestones
Childhood Milestones By Age From sitting up on their own to recognizing letters and numbers, kids’ early years are filled with important developmental milestones. So much so that it can leave parents feeling overwhelmed and pressured to help their kids “check all the boxes.” But take that pressure off – the good news is that with a supportive environment, most kids reach their physical, cognitive, and social milestones just fine. Even so, knowing the basic milestones for each age group can help you determine if you should ask your child’s pediatrician about their development. While it seems like apps, books, and information on babies’ milestones are everywhere, finding info developmental milestones for toddlers and preschoolers can be a bit tougher. To make things simple, here are some of the childhood developmental milestones the CDC and American Academy of Pediatrics use as markers of healthy development for kids ages 2 and up. 2 Years Social & Emotional Copies others Shows interest in other children. (At this age, they still mainly play near other kids but will also start playing with them occasionally. For more on the difference between the two, check out our article on Types of Play). Growing in independence Shows defiant behavior (Yep. Though it’s still important to set clear boundaries, pushing those boundaries is actually an important part of your child’s development. Language & Communication Can point to objects/ pictures as you name them. Can name some items in a picture book Knows names of familiar people/ body parts/ objects Says 2 - 4 word sentences Follows simple instructions Cognitive Finds things even when hidden under two or three covers Begins to sort shapes and colors (They don’t have to be perfect at this by any means!) Completes sentences and rhymes in familiar books Plays simple make-believe games Builds towers of 4 or more blocks Physical Can stand on tiptoes Kicks a ball Begins to run (Toddling, non-graceful runs are A-Okay at this age!) Climbs onto and down from furniture without help Walks up and down stairs while holding rails/ hands for support 3 Years Social & Emotional Shows affection and concern for friends Understands possessive pronouns (i.e. mine, his, hers, etc.) Takes turns during games Can usually separate from parents/ main caregivers easily Dresses and undresses self Language & Communication Follows 2 -3 step instructions Can name most familiar things Understands prepositions (i.e. in, on, around, etc.) Names friends Uses pronouns (i.e I, me, we, etc.) and some plurals Others can understand their speech most of the time Converses with 2 - 3 sentences Cognitive Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and people Complete 3 - 4 piece puzzles Understands the concept of the number “2” Can copy a circle with a pencil or crayon (It doesn’t need to be a perfect circle!) Builds towers of more than 6 blocks Turns jar lids and door handles Physical Climbs well Runs easily Pedals a tricycle (3-wheel bike) Climbs onto and down from furniture without help Walks up and downstairs, one foot on each step 4 Years Social & Emotional Enjoys doing new things Is increasingly creative with make-believe play Prefers to play with other children over playing alone Cooperates with other children (Usually… of course, some disagreements are inevitable!) Talks about likes and interests Language & Communication Knows some basic rules of grammar, such as correctly using “he” and “she” Sings or says songs and poems from memory Tells stories Can say first and last name Cognitive Names some colors and some numbers Understands the idea of counting (even if they don’t count perfectly yet) Begins to understand time (This doesn’t mean they can tell time yet. Rather, they start to loosely understand concepts of days, hours, past, and present). Can remember and retell parts of a story Understands concepts of “same” and “different” Can use scissors Can draw a person with 2 - 4 body parts Copies some capital letters Tells you what he thinks is going to happen next in a book Physical Hops/ stands on one foot for 2 seconds Can catch bounced balls (most of the time) Pours, mashes, and sometimes cuts own food 5 Years Social & Emotional Wants to please and be like friends More likely to agree with rules Likes to sing, dance, and act Can distinguish between real and make-believe Language & Communication Speaks very clearly Tells a story with full sentences Uses the future tense Can say name and address Cognitive Counts 10 or more things Copies triangles, rectangles, and other geometric shapes with pencil or crayon Draws a person with at least 6 body parts Can write some letters / numbers Knows about everyday items like money Physical Stands/ hops on one foot for 10 + seconds Hops and maybe skips Can do a somersault Controls a fork, spoon, and sometimes a table knife well Can use the bathroom independently Swings and climbs What Can You Do to Support Your Child’s Development? First off, keep in mind that every child will meet milestones at different times. While these guidelines are helpful for determining if your child is developing properly, development isn’t a race and we shouldn’t rush our kids to be ahead or stress if they don’t check every single milestone exactly on their birthday. (Though always talk to your pediatrician if you have concerns about missed milestones). That being said, there are plenty of low-stress, low-pressure things parents can and should do to support healthy development for their toddlers and preschoolers. Fortunately, most of these things are as simple as talking, playing, and reading with your kids! Play pretend with your child and follow their lead and ideas. Provide simple toys that promote pretend play such as dolls and toys that promote dramatic roleplay like dress-up costumes, play kitchens, and playhouses. Provide simple toys that promote cognitive development and fine motor skills such as puzzles and blocks. Read with your child every day. Reading is one of the best ways to improve children’s language and cognition, and it will provide inspiration for their own stories and pretend play. Provide craft materials and writing utensils for your child to practice with. Talk and interact with your child as you would prefer to be talked to. They’ll mimic your behavior, so model politeness and patience as much as possible (even when they’re throwing tantrums or testing boundaries). Give your child more and more opportunities for independence as they grow. For example, you can allow them to dress themselves and help out with household chores. If your child doesn’t attend daycare or preschool, set up playdates to provide opportunities for them to interact with their peers. Provide opportunities for active physical play outdoors. Swing sets, balls, climbing/balance toys can help with the development of gross motor skills. Remember, no toy is as important for your child’s development as you are! Still, we all want to know that we’re providing our kids with toys that help, rather than hinder, their physical and cognitive development. For developmentally-friendly toys your kids will love playing with, check out KidKraft’s wide range of play kitchens, dollhouses, building toys, playhouses, swing sets, climbers, and more!